Now What

I have been writing to a person on this board. I feel as though when he is on here, he opens up.  He gave me his phone number and I called him.  He was distant, too busy to talk, could not talk????  What am I supposed to think?  Well, I am not thinking anyone as I have to figure this out peacefully alone.  I have many friends but I don 't want anybody in a position where they are uncomfortable in sending me notes etc.  Hope everyone is doing well, I feel great.......Kahlia